I agree Derek. It would seem that years ago, before you and I were involved in barbel fishing, there were a series of senseless 'barbel wars', with the problems that this forum is experiencing now being the dying throws of that ego fuelled nonsense.
I am not at all sure why so many anglers have such huge egos...perhaps to be successful in our hobby requires that? Maybe you need a mean streak to drive you on to be the recognised 'top rod'? Whatever, nasty spats, vicious rows and back stabbing seem part and parcel of our hobby, which is a terribly sad state of affairs.
It staggers me why supposedly 'like minded' individuals end up having hissy fits continuously, like school kids scrapping in a playground. The problem is that it is infectious...we all get involved now and then when those who deliberately foment trouble for their own ends start contentious threads, or post in a similar way on other folks threads.
Perhaps I have missed the point here, perhaps it is me that Is a tad strange. Perhaps the fact that I am not what I would call 'a serious angler' is what leads to my lack of understanding of this mentality. I go fishing because I love it...I go fishing to relax...I go fishing to escape from the hassle of everyday life, from the inevitable problems life presents. I don't go fishing to prove something...I feel no need to be 'top' anything. Sure, we all love catching big fish...but that is the limit of my ambitions in this hobby. The fish I catch need only be big in MY eye...they do not really need to be bigger than those caught by others, beyond the normal banter of companionable sessions.
That being so, to turn the relaxing pastime I love so much into a stressful, angst filled, long term battle with all around me....seems to me about as absurd as sticking pins in my own eyes. I have no idea what the 'barbel wars' were all about, beyond the fact that ego was the driving factor. Happily for me, I don't want to know either, it doesn't interest me. I just wish those who do want to spend their lives in a turmoil of anger and jealousy would 'ugger off and fight amongst themselves...it that's what turns you on, be my guest. But please...leave those whose only wish is to enjoy a relaxing hobby as they see fit...to do so in peace.
Boring? Sterile? Perhaps, if that is what you see us as, what you wish to label us as. I actually do not give a toss about what you think, to be brutally honest. I know it may be seen by some as very strange, but actually I shall not have TOO many problems being blissfully happy next time I am relaxing by a river or lake somewhere, enjoying my hobby and loving it for giving me exactly what I want from it. Even stranger, I doubt very much that I will be attacking or even verbally abusing anyone while that puzzlingly pleasurable session takes place.
Sad old fart I know
Cheers, Dave.