Or leave BFW, as I think I am going to now, having only joined it in 2005 after Tom Rigby sent me a message via a fly forum, informing me that some fella named Gerry Castles, since dead from cancer, who under a pseudonym had been laying into me without provocation on Anglers Net, had migrated to a site that I didn't even know existed, Barbel Fishing World, and opened up on me there. So I joined BFW as Paul Boote, posted, not rudely, and Castles backed off and at least had the grace to apologize in public before leaving. So, that's how BFW got me, and I enjoyed my time on it before the serial nasties arrived, causing the regular disintegration and deletions of thread that other boards had seen when people clearly with issues about yours truly just couldn't contain themselves and had to have a go.
Best gone now, I feel (and from other sites before too very long), joining the growing company of names, contributors to and life-long lovers of Angling who have walked away from the fishy internet in recent years, men who realised earlier than me that leopards cannot change their spots or dogs learn new tricks, however nicely and generously they are treated.
Tight lines.