What BFW means to me

[Ian Sewter]

We all have parts in different worlds whether its the world of work (or retirement), the world of sport, the world of family and friends etc. When one world expands another contracts or disappears altogether. At the moment my wife I married 41 years ago is dying of cancer in a hospice and my world of fishing has all but disappeared. Yet through BFW I can still access a world I love. I read most posts and I choose a rod, reel, chair, line, method or bait. I fish alongside you on the Severn, Wye, Thames or Trent and I enjoy your photos of river scenes. Thank you all for your contributions which have given me a sense of belonging, involvement and pleasure in my otherwise disappearing world of fishing when my mind is in turmoil and my eyes filled with tears.

 

[Terry Harman]

so sorry to hear that ian thoughts are with you .. this truly is the best fishing forum going .. so glad it’s giving you some comfort in sad times

 

[Simon Archer]

My thoughts are with you Ian. Cancer really is a terrible disease. Stay strong.

 

[Bill Walford]

Ian,
I am so sorry for the pain you and your good lady are going through. You will always belong to “our world” and we’ll be here for you when you want or need us. May your god be with you in the trying times ahead.
Sincere regards,
Bill W

 

[Graham Elliott]

Ian.

Very Sad to hear that. Painful to read.

Keep strong for your Wife. In my thoughts.

 

[Damian Kimmins]

Please consider that we are sitting alongside you, Ian.

 

[Paul Whiteing]

So sad to read that Ian, stay strong.

Sincere regards

paul4

 

[Andrew Rudduck]

So sorry to hear that Ian, my thoughts are with you and your wife.

 

[Huanzhou Zhu]

Sorry to hear that Ian. Stay strong, my thoughts are with you.

 

[Derek Funcks]

Ian, i really feel for you at this most difficult time, but remember, were all here for you if you need to talk. Please PM me if you just want to speak to someone, and just need a chat. Don,t be afraid to shed a tear, it is a perfectly normal experience. Stay strong my friend.

Regards
Derek

 

[Dave Brooksbank]

Ian, i really feel for you at this most difficult time, but remember, were all here for you if you need to talk. Please PM me if you just want to speak to someone, and just need a chat. Don,t be afraid to shed a tear, it is a perfectly normal experience. Stay strong my friend.

Regards
Derek

Nice one Derek.❤

 

[Cliff Turner]

Ian, really sorry to hear your so sad news, as the others have said you have our support and sincere best wishes at this very difficult time.

 

[Mark Kingston]

Ian, Such a difficult and sad time for you. Next time I'm on the bank I send you you some pictures and you can help me out with your wisdom as I need all the help I can get. Stay safe and drink tea. Best wishes

 

[Clive Shipman]

Wonderful responses from some truly exceptional people and anglers. Keep you head up Ian we are with you

 

[Andy Frances]

I am so sorry to read this Ian. The pain of seeing your wife like this must be unbearable.

I'm so glad that BFW is able to offer you some distraction through this difficult time.

All the best,
Andy F

 

[Ian Lovett]

I really feel for you Ian.

Just over a year ago I lost my Dad after a few years of dementia. He was my best friend and fishing partner. Fishing and family is helping to get me through this difficult period in my life. My advice would be to try and get out fishing. That, along with being in the countryside in pleasant surroundings was good for me.

I'll keep on posting!

 

[Adam Wylie]

Sorry to hear that IAN ! Hope things get better for you.

 

[Damian Kimmins]

Hello Ian, just wanted you to know that you are in my thoughts. Sending you strength.

 

[Nick Coulthurst]

Really feel for you Ian, you are in my thoughts. Stay strong.

 

[Shaun Nurse]

All the very best Ian, this is a forum like a family.